Month: January 2010

Sitting in the bathtub this morning, I was looking at a card I bought just because I love the picture so much. the thought occured to me that I have not stated why I am writing this blog. I think I thought it would occur naturally but so far it has not. I am not marketing my paintings or a book or anything else. I am in love with thinking of new ways to be creative and I was hoping that if I wrote down some things I have found to work that others would write back and tell me what worked for them. We all can help each other with our experiences. Connecting the dots is what it is all about and the more dots you have the better.

I like to think that someday somebody will be able to use a comment I have made and do a new thing because it was the idea they needed right then. That is what every creativity book is about. It would be a wonderful thing to hear of any stories out there.

How important is your name to you? It is the first thing people hear about you. It is the thing they say the most when talking about to you. Your name is like your brand. Parents pick out a name they think will suit you; the only problem is they dont really know what you will be like — you really can’t tell just by looking in a newborn’s face who they will be.  I named my son Maximillian because I hoped he would grow into that name.

Sometimes we do not fit our names and they are actually not helping us out much when presenting ourselves to the world.

I am a big fan of choosing your own name when you know who you are going to be. People can get used to calling us something else. In fact , changing your name is  a declaration that you know who you are now.

I remember when I was 10 years old knowing that I was not going to be Shari but Sharika. I got out my birth certificate and added the ka on my name. I knew at young age what I was going to be and this seemed right. Nobody called me that but I knew in my heart that is who I was. It was not until I was much older that I really started calling myself that.

I am glad I did.

Just because a plan has not worked in the past does not mean it will work in the future. It is good to revisit ideas that were terrible in the past and see how they might look now. Everything working is pretty much about timing. So your timing was off before;  it might be just perfect now. That is why fashion comes back and back at different times. What was old is now new and fresh.

People love new looks and even crave them. We get bored doing what we already know how to do, but sometimes we are bored and don’t know it. If it is successful we think well this is the right way to do things. Life is way too short to do things “the right way” all time.  New and wonderful things have been discovered by doing it totally wrong. My entire painting style was born by doing something wrong. I think it is time to do something wrong again.

where do we get ideas from. The air?? yes we get them from the air. Sound crazy. Well many creative books I have read do say that it is possible to just be the right place at the right time and boom great idea. that happens in painting. I just draw a line and the painting paints itself. I don’t need tod o anything except be there. That is the key. Be ready to find what floats by. It is like standing in stream of ideas and you just have to have one hold on to your head and you see it and it is wonderful. I will tell you that every single painting that I have sold really really fast was painted really really fast. Under Two hours. That is really fast for a painting. It paints itself and I watch. When that happens, it is euphoria. It is like being the happiest person on earth. The act of creating something great is breathtaking. I am not a genius or even brilliant. I am only standing in the way of the greatness and it comes flying out because I am ready. I am looking for it. Anyone in the whole universe can do this. Anyone can do it, you only need to be ready.

based on a photo by tomasjbyrne

We all have a limited about of time to do everything we want. I have found that a good way to view time is to think of it like an unfamiliar road. You have no idea how long the road lasts but suddenly you are on it when you are born and you start walking down it. Most people live as though they have lots and lots of time. They put off important things or things that make them uncomfortable to have a little comfort for now. The only problem with that is you don’t know how much time you have to waste.  None of us has time to waste even if you live to be 100 years old because everything that comes into our path – whether comfortable or uncomfortable – is our immediate job. That might seem obvious but I have met people that don’t seem to get that. You better walk today because tomorrow you might lose your legs. If you run till you cant run anymore at least you wont have any regrets or self loathing to deal with. Nothing is more painful than thinking about what you could have done when you still could but you put off till you felt more comfortable. Nothing Nothing Nothing. Because it is all your fault and you will know it.

I am not even good at not wasting precious time and I know this so I am saying this blog to myself first and foremost. I do know it is true .

painting by Leonardo de Vinci “The Annunciation”