A portrait does not have to look exactly like a person. It can be what the person is really like on the inside. Photographs can capture your image but they sometimes don’t capture your whole self. Alice Neel did portraits that weren’t very flattering but they certainly have a lot of life and I am sure that if you knew these people they would resonate through the paint. Painting has more to offer than just a reflection.
Do you ever look in the mirror and think you dont look like yourself.
that is what is nice about paint. you can paint in the other part of you that is inside, and everyone knows about and can relate to. The invisible part is is past your actual face. Your spark.
You can paint a really loose rendition of someone and still capture how they are.
Photography can look glamorous and beautiful and soulful but it can also be a shadow of everything else that is in the person. I have seen super realistic paintings where the artist killed themselves doing a perfect representation of that mask.
Portraits are not just a likeness. Norman Rockwell did super realistic painting but they also blasted the essence of the person out too.
It is a skill to make it breathe.
You have to paint outside the lines to get at the center of what you want. You want to feel that person.
What you are
People sometimes get confused about what they are. WE are more than the sum total of the things we have done in the past. We also are what we are capable of doing in the future. We can do something different at any time and then that also has to be put in the mix. That is why dreams are important. Goals and Dreams and Schemes.
My brother lives part time in Soap Lake. Soap Lake is a tiny town with a big idea. An artist named Brent Blake had an idea for a Lava Lamp that would be sixty feet high that would act as a tourist attraction and maybe help some of the small business owners in the tiny town to do better. A noble idea. After years of trying to make that happen it looked like it was impossible, then my brother figured out a way to make it a reality and now it is going to be built.
Who knows what the impact will be on this little community willing to do something pretty extraordinary. Will it bring business and prosperity to a small town in the middle of a desert?? The results don’t matter. How can you fail by doing something this outrageous and bold? Do you think no one will come see it? I doubt it. People love new things. Especially new weird things. Bold things. It gives us all courage to tackle our own fear launching out. We think well if they can do that maybe my idea can be done too! We all benefit from courageous acts – no matter where we find them.
Portraits
Many years ago when my son was a young boy of nine, an artist friend did a quick pencil sketch of him while he was not looking at her. He was just laying on the couch absorbed in something else.
To this day I have the yellowed newsprint drawing in a cherished place in my house. I am going to frame it as give it the place it deserves.
I was thinking of how much I love that simple line drawing and was contemplating doing paintings of children for other people. I have done a few in my time but not seriously.
If I can do it I think I should.
If that old friend of mine knew how much I love the drawing she did of my son so long ago she probably would not believe me. It was so long ago. It probably took her a minute to draw it.
but that is the way art is.
art is important and timeless and a gift. I am so excited to get going on this a new idea!
Change up
since I have been going to all sorts of classes at the gym, I have been learning about how you have to change what you are doing on a regular basis or your body will just get used to what you are good at and stop challenging your muscles and then you stop getting strong. Your metabolism slows down and nothing is doing very much in the way of getting better in your body.
Our minds are like our bodies in this way too.
We need to be uncomfortably bad at things for awhile to grow.
That is why my husband and I are taking up salsa dancing. We tried swing a few years ago and were really bad at it.
So now we are going to be really bad at salsa dancing. But that is ok. It will be fun and if we get good at the basics we can go on to actually go on to something harder.
I am thrilled to have him willing to do this with me. We will grow together in this process.
I am starting some new paintings this week that will be different again. As soon as I get one done I will post it.
This week do something different with me. it would be so fun to have people write in and tell me what they did.
Maybe I will see you on the dance floor!
Color
Whether you think so or not, color affects you in a big way.
Color on the walls, color outside, color in your cheeks, the color of your hair.
I want to talk about the color of your hair today.
I was reading an article in a magazine by hairdresser who said that 90 percent of people who do color for hair go blond. I bleached my hair about 4 years ago for the first time and it changed my life.
It felt so good to look in the mirror and see a happier brighter person.
I dyed it back to dark brown for a change up and when the stylist was finished I was horrified.I went into a sever depression.
How can color around your face affect you so much.
Well it does.
Anything that gives you a lift when you look into the mirror will reflect back on your personality. You will mirror and if you feel one bit better about what you see it is worth it.
This might sound egocentric but it isn’t . Anytime you make yourself look better it is a gift to anyone who has to look at you every day.
My husband vouches for this. It makes him feel better too.
I even think some guys should be blond instead of brown.
making your house and everything you do as beautiful as you can will have a big effect on your whole life and it will be like a balm to your family.
go spread beauty wherever you can. whenever you can.. however you can.