It is impossible to prepare for a decision so much that you will avoid all pain in your life. People think that the right decision is the safest one.
You cannot foresee what will happen next till you get there. We are only given this minute to know what is available.
You might say I cannnot leave this job because I don’t have another one. I can’t do what I really want to do because it is risky.
Here is the biggest laugh/ THE REALITY IS LIFE IS ALWAYS RISKY BECAUSE WE CANNOT SEE WHAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT, AND LIFE IS NOT RISKY AT ALL BECAUSE WE ARE NOT IN CHARGE. Staying put may be the most risky. Let me tell you a story.
My husband wanted to buy a franchaise that made perfect sense to him. It was the perfect job and all the signs were pointing to this being a logical decision. THIS JOB WAS NOT SOMETHING HE LOVED IT WAS JUST WHAT SEEMED LOGICAL. WE had to sell one of our rentals to buy the franchise and we had a buyer and it looked like everything was in order. The buyer had actually moved into the house as she was so in love with it and so excited to be there and it was going so well on her side we said sure move in.
My husband was in California to buy the franchaise and get the training. All the ducks were in order. God was in control and it looked good/
On the last hour of the last day of the contract the house sale failed because for some inexplicable reason the people buying her place pulled out, The last hour.
We freaked out. Then we were creative. We had to be. Everything was riding on this deal. We thought we are going to die as we had tied all the money up in this venture.
We did not die . But here is the rest of the story. Six months later the economy crashed. My husband had the weird experience of meeting a guy that did buy the franchise instead of him. The guy was going under so fast it would make your head spin. We would have been in the same boat if that sale did not fail and stop him from buying the sure bet ,most logical thing.
Moral of the story is God is in control ( Thank You God) not us so do what you love. Not what makes sense.
I think it is impossible to make a reckless decision if you are being taken care of.