Sharika Roland

I have friends that are sophistacated. They are very elegant and refined and charming. Every once in a while they let their hair down and act silly for a couple of minutes. I yearn for those minutes like crazy. I wish half the time was hair down time not just a little leaking out.
Laughing and being silly is such a stress reducer
Sometimes my husband will make me laugh at something in the middle of a fight. It is so hard to be angry and laugh at the same time.
All he has to do is mimic me and it is over for me.
I think comedians are tremendous blessings for everyone else. Don’t you just love it when one walks on stage. For a few minutes you can forget all the hard things.
When I was a kid I used to make my siblings laugh when my Dad was making us work outside, I was just doing it to make it more fun but he was not amused, In fact he would get enraged and throw me out of the work party. Which was good for me too,
I did not get my sence of humor from Dad. He always thought I wa a bit odd.
Too bad because we could have had a great time if he would have joined in and the work would have gotten done.
Next time you have an enraged teenager, try and make them laugh. Mimic what they are saying. If they have half a brain they will be unable to continue being mad.

What value do you give to dreams. Most people give zero value to them.
Not me, I get dreams that are life altering sometimes. I have had dreams where I figured out a problem. I have had dreams that opened doors.
We never stop thinking. Every minute of every day we think think think.
WE never stop. It is like breathing .
That blog I wrote last time about the visusalization of what you would do if you could do anythng for 24 hours then 12 then 6 then one, well I did it.
It was a sort of dream only I was awake.
When you sift down all the best of the best you get to the spectacular and that is what that exercise is all about. sifting.
When you know what the spectacular is for you it gives you clarity to start walking there.
When you see and feel the spectacular idea then it is easier to go straight there.
Otherwise we go all over the place spinning our wheels,
Or get lost in the maze.
I would say that this particular exercise is the most powerful I have ever come up with and I recomment that you do it immediately and take your time because it is totally the most fun thing you can ever do and it feels like you actually are there,
It is like going on the funnest ride in the universe for you.
Did I build it up enough to make you want to try it, Good , go do it especially if you never did anything like this before.

Sometimes I like to play a game called. Imagine anything. then I focus really hard on what I would do if I could do anything I wanted for 24 hours. I laser beam think about this for a few minutes and then imagine what I would do if I could do anything for 12 hours, then six then one.
It is really easy to think of what you would do in one hour after going through all the longer time periods.
Super easy.
Then do that thing.
That is the game. You have to go through all the other visualizations first to get to the last one.
Here is a story to think about. Every day millions of people read blogs and they are looking for some imspiration. That is why everyone reads them or they would not even go there.
So it is like asking a lot of friends to give you advice about everything for a few minutes a day.
This is what most blogs say in a nut shell including mine.
You can do it. I did it and so can you. I am just like you and you are just like me so everyone can do it if they try.
Almost everyone in the whole world does not try. That is why you can do it because whatever is stopping everyone else makes the playing field pretty small.
I am telling you this because someone who is reading this right now has told me a million times to do something and I have not done it but now I am because the playing field is not that big really and I just now got it.
It totally has everything to do with the first part of this blog.

When you paint you are doing nothing more than making corrections to the line you put on one second ago. You go over and over it till you find the voice of the painting and then you listen to that voice and obey it and paint it and that is how you get a painting.
Nobody but nobody knows what the finished product will look like.
So with this in mind I am going to teach the kids art class about respecting the line just before you get the good one. The line that looks awful and the color that is horrible and not at all what you want to say.
Those lines are the structure upon which you make the corrections. You can’t make any corrections unless you do something first. anything first.

So if you embrace the structure as structure and not a mistake and a commentary on how bad you are as an artist you will save a lot of time.
You will see what needs to be done next if you don’t get all caught up in the egoness of it , all in the mud.
the mud is your best friend.
Nobody paints inspired work right out of the shoot. If you can pump out lots and lots of good looking work without going through the mud stage then I would venture to say you are not inspired.
You have to let go of the side of the pool to be inspired. You have to trust the angel wings to hold you up when you are inspired and you have to not be afraid to look bad to be inspired.
the old addage it is always darkest before the storm is true true true.
This painting I am showing you here is one of the hardest ones I ever did. It took me three weeks and many hours of mud and screaming to get it out.
But in the end it is sublime.
Inpired work is more than you normally can do.

There is something in us that is not content with now. I find I cannot wait to get started then I can’t wait to finish then I can’t wait to see what happens then I can’t wait to get the next one done.
All the while missing the enjoyment of just being where I am right now.
Nothing will get better or seem clearer when that letter comes in the mail. Then I will have a new set of questions.
I don’t know if television and advertizing does that to us.
Why can’t I just sit on the porch for a minute and feel the sun on my face and do nothing else.
You lose your focus when you cannot slow down and breath,
that is what I tell the kids in my art class. Take a deep breath and calm down so you can think.
One thing that can slow you down is reading quietly. Read the words one by one and feel the flow that was carefully crafted in the authors hand. Back and Forth one word at a time. Movies flood you with images and words and sounds and you really don’t have time to absorb it.
The pace of a movie is stuffed full of shortcuts to get the point across while a book takes its time .
The watching of movies might even throw the rythm  of life off and you have this sense of being rushed.
We used to read the morning paper now we scan everything on the internet.
And a letter handwritten with pictures enclosed is not the same thing as a facebook posting quicly sent out.
What are the effects of this on our lives. Why do we hav to move so fast. We used to walk downtown and go shopping. Now we buy everything on the internet. or rush to the mall or make a mad dash to a store that is full of cars all in a hurry to get in and get out.
What is the cost of this on our lives, Our only life that we have to spend,
Why is fast better?
Just a few ideas on the back burner today making me take another look at the fast and furious way we live and die,