Then what? I like to play then what to figure out the bottom line of what I really want. Why do I want it? Is it a fluke want or a real want-need thing. This is how to find out.
If I get it, then what? What will I do next? If the answer is grow learn help develop or anything good, then I go ahead and want it and go after it. But if the answer is just because it will make me feel better temporarily, or distract me from what I really need to do, or just to see if I can get it for no good reason, forget it. It’s not worth it. You would be surprised to just ask those questions the next time you want something. It reveals a lot about your character and many problems hidden from plain view.